The rules keep changing. We get our footing and then it’s pulled out from under us again.
Of course you’re upset. Of course you’re unmotivated. Of course you’re more irritable than you “should” be.
This is hard. You’re grieving. You’re lonely. You’re missing connection. You’re missing people. You’re missing physical touch.
And you’re not sure when it’s going to end. When you’ll feel better. When you’ll wake up from this dream (or nightmare).
The thing is, we don’t have control.
This pandemic has taught us so many things. One of the big ones is that the stability, predictability and safety we all lived in was not as it seemed.
You get it now. If you didn’t already.
Life can change in an instant.
A quote on a greeting card that sits on my bookshelf says “we cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails.”
We’ve been on a long sail boat voyage we didn’t sign up for.
We didn’t pack appropriately for it. We didn’t get to take a class or two on sailing. We’ve been sailing for over a year now in a direction that we think is the right one. We’ve been constantly adjusting our sails and going with the flow.
We don’t know what the new land will look like when we get there.
We really know our shipmates though. We’ve spent A LOT of time with them!
It’s not always smooth sailing. You know this. I know this.
But on the sunny days, we feel better. We can look around and appreciate our shipmates and our sturdy vessel.
Adjust your sails.
What can make today a better day for you? How can you add joy? What can you ACTUALLY control? Do those things. Don’t wait.
I’m finally going to sign up for one of those Zoom painting classes or something. I’m organizing my storage closet. Some days I don’t feel like doing anything. I honour those days. Then when my motivation comes back, I ride that wave.
You’re not alone. We can do this.
Adjust your sails.
Whitney
When will I see him again?